Last week’s focus was on not complaining. I hope you learned a valuable lesson: Complaining solves nothing! It doesn’t even make you feel better. It probably makes you feel worse.

This week let’s work on something that will make you feel better: Focus on the solution. Not complaining isn’t quite enough. It’s a step in the right direction. If you find something to complain about, then you’ve found something that needs a solution.

Being solution focused requires a new perspective — a perspective of:

How can I …